Rosemary Campbell
Rosemary and Beth’s St. Philomena Story Beth was born on the
15 Dec 1993. She was a bit reluctant to come into the world and
decided to arrive 10 days late. She was the most perfect baby I
have ever seen and was so good that she even slept the whole
night the day she was born. I said to my mum that I thought that
she was too perfect and never a truer word was spoken.
The first 14 weeks of Beth’s life were absolutely perfect and
she was just my little angel. Beth has two big sisters Karen and
Fiona who absolutely adore her.
At 15 weeks old Beth received her second round of injections on
the Tuesday, she seemed to be fine but on the Wednesday night
she was very sick and had a pin prick rash all over her. I put
this down to a reaction to the jag but the next day her big
sister Karen noticed that she had what looked like bruises all
over her. I immediately phoned the doctor who arrived within
minutes. Meningitis was diagnosed and we were rushed into
hospital rushing through every red traffic light. When we
reached the hospital a nurse grabbed Beth out of my arms and ran
with her. I was in a daze and didn’t realise how sick my baby
was. I was taken into the intensive care unit where a doctor and
nurse came to tell me that Beth was dangerously ill and that it
was possible that she might not survive.
They took me to see her and I didn’t recognise my little girl.
She had monitors attached to every part of her body and the
bruise like rash was now very dark and her fingers and toes
looked like pieces of charcoal. The dark rash was now up the
whole length of her right leg and there were large blisters all
over her. I learned that this was septicaemia and if she did
survive there would have to be a degree of amputations, but this
was way down at the end of the line.
Beth’s life functions had completely closed down and she was on
full life support. Once Beth’s dad arrived the doctors came to
see us and told us that her blood pressure had fallen so low
that there would be massive brain damage and that they
recommended that we turn off the machines in half an hour.
Initially we were praying for God to make her survive and then
we started to question if we were being fair to Beth. We then
prayed for her to survive if she was going to have some quality
of life and arranged for the hospital chaplain to give her the
sacrament of the sick and she was also confirmed. At this time I
telephoned the family and my Parish Priest to ask them to pray
for Beth.
Unbeknown to me, my dad and my aunt Grace started praying to St
Philomena. (Both had a great devotion to Her since they were
children) .
Thanks to one doctor who refused to give up on Beth she is with
us today but he did tell us that the road ahead of us was not
going to be easy. We didn’t ask for easy we only asked that she
survive. Beth was in intensive care for two weeks and slowly
regained each life function. She was taken for a brain scan and
we were told that the damage was excessive and only by living
day to day would we find out what her capabilities would be.
She was then taken up to a ward as the wounds that she had from
the septicaemia were so bad that they had to be treated as
burns. She had all of the fingers on her right hand amputated,
some of the tips of the fingers on her left hand and part of her
foot and toes on her right foot. She also had to have skin
grafts on her right leg. Altogether Beth was in hospital for 4
months. When we got her home the hard work really started. She
cried constantly and hardly ever slept. I remember walking the
floor with her at night and shouting at God because she wouldn’t
stop crying. There were times when I cried along with her and
this was like a release valve. I remember one of the nurses in
the hospital asking me if this ever made me doubt my faith. I
didn’t have to think about the answer at all because I would
say, if anything it made my faith stronger. After all we were
told that our little girl was going to die and only through all
the prayers which were sent her way did she survive. We had to
see lots of different doctors and therapists. She had to have
loads of different tests as meningitis is known to affect the
eyes and the ears. After seeing various doctors Beth was
diagnosed as having very severe quadriplegic cerebral palsy and
was also registered blind. Her circulation is also affected and
she cannot tolerate the cold for very long.
Fast forward to December 1999 when I met Marie Burns through a
group for families with children with special needs. Marie gave
me a Christmas card with a relic medal of St Philomena for Beth.
I didn’t know anything about St Philomena at this time and I
telephoned my dad who told me that he had a great devotion to St
Philomena and had been praying to her for Beth all these years.
My dad told me that he had a cure with a St Philomena cord when
he was 3 years old. He had pneumonia and the doctors couldn’t
get his temperature down, so my gran tied a St Philomena cord
around him and his fever broke immediately.
I went to the first Mass Marie organised which was on 10 January
2000 and had a very specific thing to pray for. This prayer was
answered on 11 January 2000 and I called to let Marie know. That
was the beginning of our venture together in trying to promote
St Philomena and her works to as many people as possible and
thus began “The Family of St Philomena”.
In April 2000 Beth had to go into hospital to have her right leg
amputated due to complications arising from the meningitis. I
was very afraid for her at this time and Marie suggested that I
pay a visit to St Philomena’s Shrine in Italy. We went in March
2000 and it was one of the most emotional times of my life. I
literally sat in front of the Shrine for a week, only venturing
out to get some heat. The Sanctuary was only at the beginning of
the restoration works at this time and was freezing cold, it was
warmer outside than inside.
At the end of the week I was at peace with the thought of Beth
having the surgery and knew that she would be well looked after.
Before Marie and I left the Shrine Fr Braschi said the most
beautiful Mass for Beth in front of St Philomena’s Shrine and we
were joined by some of the parishioners of Mugnano del
Cardinale. Fr Braschi told them about Beth and what she was
about to go through and they were all very supportive telling me
to be strong and hugging me, I don’t think I stopped crying
until I got on the plane to go home.
Marie and I then started organising Masses in our local church
and pilgrimages to the Shrine.
This involved a lot of hard work and Fr Braschi then asked me if
I could design a calendar to be distributed worldwide.
I designed the calendar for the years 2003 to 2005 and also
designed perpetual mass cards along with many other prayer cards
and leaflets. I also redesigned the book about the cord which is
used to this day.
In 2005 Fr Braschi asked me to take over the running of the
whole of Scotland for the Saint Philomena and of course I
accepted.
Since St Philomena came into my life she has made me work
constantly on her behalf and has been a constant part of my
family’s lives. .
I turn to her on a daily basis and feel confident that she will
always help me through the worst and best times.
Beth was 16 on Dec 15 2009 and I can’t believe that so many
years ago we were told that she had only half an hour to live.
She has been through many painful periods in her life, the most
recent being two years ago when she had to be fitted with a
gastrostomy feeding tube as she stopped eating, but she always
comes through smiling at the other end.
Here is a poem I wrote about Beth a long time ago.
My Little Angel
A perfect little baby
Was called by God one day
To change the lives of many In a very special way
Your little limbs will be impaired
And your progress will be slow
But your halo of golden curls
Will turn heads where ever you go
The colour of the rainbows hue
Will be hidden from your eyes so blue
And pain will sometimes take it’s toll
And cause you to cry from your very soul
But when the breeze blows through your hair
Your laughter will fill the summer air
And much pleasure you will also gain
From the sound of music the wind and the rain
Your mum and dad will be put to the test
And they will not get very much rest
But love and faith will reap rewards In many different ways
And you will be very special
Until the end of your days.
R Campbell

Beth Receiving a Special Personal Blessing from Arch Bishop
Beniamino Depalma, Bishop of Nola, (for the diocese of the
Sanctuary of St Philomena)
Margaret Thomson
I have been a devoted follower of Saint Philomena since my
childhood days when my primary school teacher told us stories
about the saints, particularly stories of those who became
saints at a very young age.
Throughout my life, I have made novenas to Saint Philomena for
various reasons and, I have to say, my requests were always
granted. Sometimes I had to wait for longer than I would have
liked, but my prayers were always answered.
I started to attend the Masses in honour of Saint Philomena in
the Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, Glasgow and also the Masses
at Carfin Grotto around 12 years ago. It was wonderful to see
that this little Saint was being recognised and honoured again
after the suppression in 1961 over the Liturgical Calendar, many
quiet years had passed for Saint Philomena. It was also great to
be with so many people who had a similar devotion to Saint
Philomena and who wished to make her known again to everyone and
to receive all those blessings from her Relic and from her Holy
Oil.
I was honoured and I should say, lucky enough, to go on
Pilgrimage to the Sanctuary of Saint Philomena in Mugnano del
Cardinale on 3 occasions – 2003, 2005 and 2007. It was a
wonderful experience and I feel blessed to have been there and
to have received so much grace and fulfillment through sitting
in the church and speaking to and praying to Saint Philomena.
I have also been a member of the Universal Living Rosary
Association for approximately 15 years and I say my assigned
decade – the Crucifixion – every day in honour of Saint
Philomena. I love to volunteer with our St. Philomena Scottish
Centre is truly is being part of a family.
Fr Anthony Gallagher – Assistant Spiritual Director for
Scotland and the UK
St Catherine Laboure
90 Lamont Road
Glasgow
G21 399
Tel: 0141 558 6723
Carfin Lourdes Grotto
St. Philomena Shrine within the Grotto
Taylor Avenue, Carfin, Motherwell, ML1 5AJ
Tel: 01698 263308
Fax: 01698 268941
Email: info@carfin.org.uk
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